Hello!

I'm Wilson Chew.

My Journey of faith

I am a Christian after I read the Bible at an atheist friend’s recommendation.

I am an IT professional and have spent most of my life working with computers and IT equipment. I now enjoy journeying with people more than computers.

Although I identify as an introvert, I still very much enjoy the company of people.

I am a child of God.

And I want to share my life story with you.

More About Me

My Beliefs

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Personal Vision

I believe in constant personal growth: in Jesus, in my relationships with people, and in my knowledge.

I believe in being a source of help for people who are also looking for personal growth in their relationship with Jesus, or others.

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Personal Mission

To journey with like-minded individuals, sharing my experience in the faith, and leading by example in my walk with Christ.

To create and maintain safe spaces in every encounter I have with people.

To practice the teachings of Jesus in my life, and to experience the freedom granted to me through His death and resurrection.

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Site Purpose

To provide a safe platform where I can share with the site’s readers how I apply biblical concepts in my day-to-day life.

To provide a safe platform where I can share with the readers of this site how I integrate Choice Theory (developed by William Glasser) into my daily Christian living.

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Site Mission

I will only share personal information about myself, and in doing so, I will strive to be authentic and empathetic.

I will only share from my own perspective and will not attempt to represent any other individuals or companies that I am associated with.

I will diligently fact-check my understanding of the Bible and what I have learned from Choice Theory. In the event that I share both together, I will make an effort to reconcile the teachings of Choice Theory with the principles and teachings of the Bible.

Final Words

In my personal sharing, I acknowledge that the readers of this site may have a different perspective of the information that I have given.

I hold the belief that having different views doesn’t determine whether each of us is right or wrong.

My suggestion is to take what is useful to you, and leave the rest behind for your consideration later.

– Wilson

My Musings

Apr 6, 2025 / Church / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Using Choice Theory to Create Publicity That Reflects God’s Glory

How I apply Choice Theory to design publicity that reflects clarity, connection, and God's glory — with real questions to guide vision and behaviour.

Mar 12, 2025 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Four Things a Lead-Manager Does and Three Roles in Church Leadership

Leadership isn’t about having a title or giving orders—it’s about guiding people in a way that helps them take ownership of their choices. Choice Theory breaks leadership down into four key roles: manager, teacher, Counsellor, and friend. Each role contributes to...

Feb 18, 2025 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Choice Theory: Understanding the 5 Basic Needs in the Cell Journey

Human behavior is driven by five fundamental needs (not to be confused with maslow hierarchy of needs) as outlined in Choice Theory: Survival, Power, Love and Belonging, Freedom, and Fun. These needs shape our choices, interactions, and the way we engage in...

Jan 25, 2025 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Building a Relevant Cell Platform with Leadership

When I think about creating a cell group that feels relevant in today’s secular world, I’m reminded of the times we struggled to identify which Bible verses or lessons could truly speak to someone’s workplace challenges or their place of pain. We often hoped for...

Jan 21, 2025 / Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Fellowship in Action: Intentional Relationships for Spiritual Growth

Fellowship starts small, grows through shared experiences, and extends outward into meaningful relationships. Over time, we’ve intentionally created opportunities to connect with one another, our families, and the wider church community. These activities have been...

Jan 13, 2025 / Church / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Growth as a Christian – Perception Shift and Behaviour Shifts

A Journey Through Perception Shifts I used to focus a lot on crafting lessons. I take insights from reading God’s Word, format them into a structured teaching, and hope to inspire perception shifts in those who listen. This approach feels natural—it’s how we’ve...

Jan 7, 2025 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Building a Meaningful Cell Consensus

Forming a consensus within a cell group is a powerful process that unites members toward a shared vision while respecting individual goals. Through years of practice and learning, I’ve identified three core elements that were helpful in forming the foundation of a...

Jan 1, 2025 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

Why I Co-Plan the Schedule for Cell a Year in Advance

Planning the cell group schedule a year ahead is not just about organising events but about creating a rhythm that allows us to grow in the Lord, stay rested, and build relationships. Collaboration, reflection, and a focus on spiritual growth through intentional...

Dec 29, 2024 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

What is a Leader, and How Do We Raise Leaders?

When considering the question, "What is a leader?" I move beyond titles, roles, or hierarchical positions. Leadership, especially in a Christian context, is about influence, service, and guiding others closer to God. True leaders inspire change not by demanding...

Dec 28, 2024 / Church, Leadership / By Wilson Chew / 0 Comments

The Power of Consensus: Negotiating a Shared Direction in the Lord

Consensus results from careful negotiation. This negotiation process is an active, intentional practice where we seek alignment not just among ourselves but with the Lord’s will. It’s a journey that requires listening, humility, and a shared commitment to honor one...

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